ASSP Leader Toolkit
Conflict resolution

When they respond

Listening and closing the conversation well.

  • Let them finish. Don't prepare your rebuttal while they talk.
  • Reflect back: "What I'm hearing is… Did I get that right?"
  • Acknowledge feelings without having to agree: "That sounds frustrating."
  • Ask before solving: "What would help from your side?"
  • Close with next steps: who does what by when, and when you'll check in.

If the conversation becomes about harassment, discrimination, safety, or ethics, pause it and involve your chapter leadership.